The Stillhouse
Welcome to The Stillhouse — a quiet place to explore truth, self-mastery, and radical freedom through writing and reflection.
This space has been a long time coming. I had to work through a lot of “supposed to” to create it.
So, what is this space?
It’s for the truth seekers — the ones who see the dysfunction and know there must be a better way. The ones who see the ego in spirituality and know that isn’t the truth. The ones who can spot pain a mile away and are tired of dealing with it. This is for seekers, truth-tellers, and people tired of the noise.
I’ve always wanted a treehouse — a space just for me, where I can write and share without being bothered by algorithms, views, likes, or shares. This is it. There are no social media links here, only a simple email sign-up if you want to stay connected. Nothing more.
As always, the vast majority of what I do is free and will always be that way. Eventually, there will be a paid space — for those who want to go even deeper, even farther into the woods to find their own proverbial treehouses.
This space will never be what the world thinks it’s supposed to be. It will be what I choose to make it — real, quiet, and relaxed. Grab some tea, coffee, or beverage of choice, get comfy, and hang out. I’m glad you’re here.
Love to all.
Della
Featured Articles
The Quiet Power of Self-Responsibility
Self-responsibility naturally follows self-mastery. While self-mastery teaches us to manage our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors within any experience—without trying to control, manipulate, or change that experience—it’s about conscious participation with a sense of separation. This separation lets us stay present and aware while not being overwhelmed. Self-responsibility takes that foundation further. It asks us to look at the impact we have on the experience itself. It invites us to honestly examine how we choose to show up, and to decide
Why Blaming Technology Won’t Fix Our Broken Relationships
Relationships, society, and technology have all changed dramatically over the course of my lifetime (I’ll be 50 next week, at the time of writing this). In the wake of these changes, we’ve started looking for something to blame—especially when it comes to what we see in our kids and the next generation. But the truth is more layered than screen time and social media. It’s been oversimplified, and it’s time to dispel a few myths about what’s really going on.