Uncoaching Conversations with Della
What is an Uncoaching Conversation?
It’s a space without an agenda.
No strategies. No “mindset shifts.” No forced reframes.
Just room to be — fully, honestly, and without performance.
You’re not being nudged toward a breakthrough.
You’re not being observed through the lens of improvement.
You’re not being guided toward a result.
This is a conversation without a ladder to climb.
A space where silence is welcome, truth is safe, and presence is everything.
Sometimes, the most radical thing we can do… is stop trying to become.
Because when you stop reaching, you can finally see what’s true.
And once you see it—you don’t need to become anything else.
Why "Uncoaching"?
Because most of us don’t need more help fixing ourselves.
We need permission to unravel.
We’ve been conditioned to perform even while healing—
to find the lesson, hunt the growth, push toward transformation.
But deep healing doesn’t happen through pressure.
It happens through witnessing—
in spaces where nothing is demanded, and everything is allowed.
And in that quiet, what’s true begins to rise.
Not the story. Not the spin. Not what you’ve been told to believe.
But the truth that’s been waiting underneath it all.
This is where you come to hear your own voice again—
and trust what it’s telling you.
What Happens in an Uncoaching Conversation?
You speak. I listen.
We don’t chase clarity. We let it arrive naturally—
as truth tends to do, when it’s finally given room.
There’s space to wander. To sit in silence. To not “get somewhere.”
There’s no pressure to explain, achieve, or transform.
Only permission to be honest—especially with yourself.
You bring what you’re carrying.
I hold space without agenda.
We trust that your wisdom already lives inside you—
and when the truth is ready, it speaks.
Who is This For?
People who are done being treated like a problem to solve.
People who’ve outgrown the performance of self-development.
People who want genuine connection, not manufactured “breakthroughs.”
People who are tired of fixing and finally ready to feel.
People who are seeking truth—not more tasks.
People who want space to let what’s real rise, without pressure or performance.
People who crave silence that doesn’t judge, and presence that doesn’t flinch.
If you’ve ever said,
“I don’t want advice — I just want someone who can stay with me while I sort this out,”
this is for you.
What You Receive
🌀 Ongoing access to me via Voxer or Messenger — come as you are, when you need to
🌀 The option to request a live video chat any time (just give me 24 hours’ notice)
🌀 Open-ended, soul-level conversations as needed — no clock-watching
🌀 A space that feels like your best friend’s text thread: raw, real, unrushed
This is not a program.
This is not coaching.
This is truth work.
This is sacred, agenda-free presence — when and where you need it most.
Choose Your Space
| Option | Description | Energy Exchange |
|---|---|---|
| The Deep Breath | One week of Uncoaching | $150 CAD |
| The Soul Companion | Four weeks of Uncoaching | $400 CAD |
No performance. No pressure. Just presence.
This is a space for truth.
Messy, unfiltered, unresolved truth.
You don’t have to change. You don’t have to arrive.
You just have to show up as you are.
That’s enough here.
Start Uncoaching Now by picking your space below.
Uncoaching Conversations
Choose between one week or one month of Uncoaching using the options below. Once paid you’ll be able to contact me immediately through either Voxer or Messenger.
Frequently Asked Questions
While I may not respond at 3am, I will always answer you within 12 hours.
The point of Uncoaching isn’t to clock minutes — it’s to create a meaningful connection through real conversation. If your main focus is maximizing my time for the lowest cost, this probably isn’t the right space for you.
Yes. If you end your time early, I’ll refund the unused portion based on a simple daily rate:
Weekly: $21.43 CAD per day
Monthly: $13.33 CAD per day
So if you use 3 days of a week, you’ll be refunded for the remaining 4. If you use half a month, you’ll get the other half back.
I don’t refund used time, but I do honour what you haven’t used. If you’re unsure, start small and build from there.
You can use either Voxer or Messenger to chat with me. Voice messages are preferred for speed, however text messages are welcome.
Video chats can be done in Messenger or we can use Whereby, which is completely free and requires no sign up.