The Stillhouse Framework
This is the lens through which I build, write, and live.
This is not a set of rules, guidelines, or a new belief system.
• It’s nonlinear.
• It’s symbolic and intuitive.
• Truth is felt, not forced.
• Pain is not a prerequisite.
• There are no fixed steps—only paths you can choose and choices you can make.
Everything I write and share will tie back to this framework in some way.
This is the foundation I’ve built for myself.
I share it with you in hopes that it helps you discover your own foundational truth.
Love to all.
Della
Core Question and Idea
What is true?
Not what’s moral. Not what’s approved. Not what’s right. But what’s true, beneath all the distortion, human rules, and judgment.
This Framework Assumes...
• The soul is real.
• Everyone is a spirit in a meat suit.
• The divine is present but undefined. God does not reward or punish.
• Systems distort truth.
• Consciousness is relational.
• Morality is subjective.
• Most of society’s pain is manufactured.
• People are inherently good.
• Experience is neutral.
These are the truths I base everything else on. They are not something I’m trying to prove.
The Framework Rejects...
• Pain is inherently a lesson.
• There is a moral hierarchy.
• Belief is required.
• Certainty is sacred.
• Group allegiance and conformity are needed.
These are ideas I no longer believe.
The Framework Offers...
• Permission to un-know everything you’ve learned or believed about life and how it works.
• Language for the liminal.
• Inner self-sufficiency and self-responsibility.
• Self-sovereignty.
• Freedom without force.
• Truth without trauma.
• Cosmic belonging.
• Release of pain.
• Relationships as optional, not required.
• Tools for living without a script.
These things are possible when you free yourself to find the truth.
The truth isn’t painful. The lie is.